This difficult-to-detect cancer meant extensive surgery, chemotherapy, and radiation. It was a year I never saw coming. 

What Kept You Going?

Being diagnosed with cancer was paralyzing. I suddenly had six doctors and my days were filled with appointments. The thought of chemo terrified me. But I had my four kids and my husband, who was terrified I would die, to consider. 

Most importantly, it was the overwhelming support of others that pulled me through. From flowers and meals to thoughtful care packages and constant encouragement from family and friends, every act of kindness mattered. My husband’s unwavering support and the prayers from my church were also crucial. I truly could not have made it without them. 

General Advice to Other Women 

Get your yearly mammograms. I know they're uncomfortable, but if they find something—or if you feel something—get it checked. Finding cancer early means a much brighter outcome. 

Advice to Those Diagnosed 

My heart breaks for you. It will be long and hard, but you CAN do this. Live one day at a time. Find others who've been through this journey; they are invaluable. And use cancer support organizations. 

Additional Insights 

My lobular cancer was hard to detect. It was a super thorough ultrasound tech who found a "little wiggle" outside the suspicious spot. If I hadn't gone back for that follow-up, the cancer would have had another year to progress. You will shine through this, not as a cancer patient, but as the incredible, vibrant survivor you truly are.